Q & A

Q: Why do you date the women that you do?

A: I get this response repeatedly usually from women. Hell, let's be honest. Women are the only ones that ask this as no man has ever asked me this question.

My disastrous relationships with women have made for great material here at the C-blog for a variety of posts on the "love is bullshit" theme. I have done an informal survey amongst my male peers, and it turns out that I have had more relationships than any of them. This is because many of them have gotten married while I have been dating serially my entire adult life. The result of all these relationships is that I have been able to acquire a better sample of the population which paints a better picture of what women want. Unlike Stephen Hawking, I do understand women.

Women want two men. The first guy is the one that fucks them like an animal and treats them like complete shit. This is because it turns them on. Such behavior indicates to them a certain level of testosterone and virility. They want to fuck this guy in a really bad way because their biology wants them to reproduce with this fuckwad. Read a few romance novels or watch a chick flick, and you will see this urge over and over. Women want the bad boy.

The second man women want is the cuckold or the "cuck" as I like to call it. This is the nice guy who will support them and take care of them and all that. This is also biological as women are vulnerable especially when bearing and rearing children. This is the "sensitive" man that women want to have, but they never quite fall in love with them. This is because they don't actually want to fuck this guy. They just want him to support them and pay their bills. But they are bored with this man and will fuck other men on the side that are more to their liking.

These two urges put women in a perpetual state of dissatisfaction. This is a consequence of biology which doesn't give a damn for your personal happiness. The goal is not satisfaction but reproduction. The fulfillment such things promise never materializes, but it is motivating. As long as a baby is made, this is all that matters to biology.

The conventional wisdom on the part of women is that I make lousy choices in women to date. The assumption is that not all women are alike, and I seem to be a magnet for a few bad apples. This is simply bullshit. This isn't bad luck on my part but self-delusion on their part. This is because all women think they are unique and special. In certain respects, this is true. But when it comes to sex, they are all the same. They want a fucker to make the baby, and they want a sucker to take care of the baby. These urges are encoded in their DNA.

I don't care to be either the bastard or the cuck. Women are not hard to understand at all. The difficulty comes from trying to reconcile these competing urges they have to achieve satisfaction. This can't be done anymore than oil and water can be mixed. As I said, nature doesn't give a shit about your satisfaction. Dissatisfaction is nature's number one tool for promoting survival. Even in an age of birth control, abortion, and family planning, the human race still breeds at an astounding rate. Infidelity is the norm and not the exception. Monogamy is unnatural.

Men are easily satisfied. If they can drain their balls daily, that's all they really need. The problem for them is social as they are now expected to actually father the offspring they help create or at least pay child support. Their frustration comes when they find themselves with a woman who wants their money while simultaneously not putting out. The rub is when this same woman who takes their money while not putting out has no problem putting out for some other guy. That is the biology working there exactly as programmed. Men follow their programming and engage in affairs. For them, they just want the satisfaction of sexual relief. For women, the fear is that their cuck may leave them without resources when it turns out that he is really a bastard. Since most men cheat, it becomes obvious that all monogamous arrangements are merely a fiction created by two liars in mutual deception.

I have to laugh when women say that it is my own fault for making lousy choices in dating. But there is no choice. What I have shared here is the norm. This is how it really is. I am not the deluded one. The people who disagree with my description of this state of affairs are the deluded ones. The statistics and the science are firmly on my side. My personal experience merely validates what the biologists already know. The human race is not a monogamous species.

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