Perhaps the tide is turning. But the women's lib shit is silent now. It just isn't there anymore. If you doubt this, just look at the crazy shit I write, and no woman says a word about it now. Women gave men full license to be free and didn't even know it. This is why they shave their pubes and wear thong underwear to try and compete like wanton sluts with porn stars. Men are still slobs. We own this world. It is ours.--a comment I posted on Facebook. No woman out of my 5000 friends called me out on it.
I remember when I was a kid, and my mother told me something I never forgot. She said to me, "Charlie, your daddy is from a different time and place, and he grew up with the expectation that women would wait on him hand and foot. That was the way he was raised. But I am not raising you like that. The women you deal with when you grow up are going to be different. They're not going to be your housemaid and cook. You need to learn to fend for yourself." With that, I became acquainted with the broom, the mop, the washing machine, and later, the stove. I learned to cook and clean. I also learned what "pro-choice" meant. I learned about women's liberation and the expectation that I would be working alongside women in the workplace. I learned about equal pay for equal work. And I learned that domestic responsibilities in the future would be shared.
My mother was not completely correct in her predictions, but she did me a valuable service in teaching me those lessons. I learned how to take care of myself. The popular notion is that men enslaved women to the kitchen and the ironing board, but this is not exactly true. This was simply an ancient division of labor that had endured for thousands of years. Women had to tend the domestic front while men had to go out and earn, kill a woolly mammoth, or whatever. We could just as easily say that men were enslaved to the job busting their asses to provide food and other things for his family. Who is the master and who is the slave here? As someone who does both roles, I can tell you that it was the man. My domestic chores don't compare to what I have to do for the boss man each day. Things were certainly different before the washing machine, the dryer, and the microwave oven. Domestic chores were a real burden. But the modern age makes these things a breeze now.
Women's Liberation
Things began to change for women in earnest during the sixties with women's liberation. Prior to this time, the women's movement was most well represented by women's suffrage and the temperance movement. The 60's were the peak in terms of protest activity, and the coup de grace of this movement was the Roe v. Wade decision in 1973 giving women the right to reproductive choice. Women wanted to be free from the kitchen. They wanted equal pay and equal respect in the workplace. And they also revolted against women portrayed in the media as mere sex objects and going after a guy like Hugh Hefner. My opinion of this movement is mostly positive including the sex object stuff. Women wanted to be seen as something more than a housewife and a sex slave. I really have no problem with this.
If there was a downside to all this women's lib stuff, the first was that it made women who actually wanted to remain in the home feel inferior. This was unfortunate because many women find bliss in domestic activities. If this sounds shocking, it shouldn't be. There are two ways you can look at it. These women are June Cleaver and Aunt Bea. Or, they are Martha Stewart and Rachael Ray. It isn't the women who were demeaned so much as the activities in much the same way that blue collar work is demeaned today. What you begin to realize is that women weren't seeking liberation as much as they were seeking status. Men's roles were glamorous while women's work was drudgery. This is why you see no gigantic push for women to enter blue collar professions despite being more than willing to do this during World War II. And I don't buy this bullshit that women were forced out of that work by men returning home from the war. I will call it like it is. Women would rather sew than weld in much the same way that I would rather weld than sew. Men are blunt objects while women are refined instruments. They self-select their occupations based on what they like and what they are good at. I've seen this in every place I have ever worked despite efforts to try and balance this. Where physiology does not matter, you see almost equal representation between men and women. This is usually knowledge work and leadership. Since this work connotes status, those are the jobs women seek.
The second downside to emerge was the political correctness that permeates workplaces, universities, and other institutions. This is where the term "feminazi" comes into play and has probably done more to instill in men a complete don't-give-a-fuck attitude in regards to women than anything else. This is where feminists overstepped their bounds and pushed for an intellectual emasculation of men. The reality is this was women's way to bring chivalry back in a new disguise. In the past, saying the F-word in front of a woman would get a man's ass knocked the fuck out by some other man. Being crude to women was ungentlemanly. The women's liberation movement killed chivalry as women insisted on fighting their own battles. Men became disgusting pieces of shit at that point openly harassing females with women suddenly discovering they couldn't fight their own battles at all. So, they once again turned to men for their protection except they did it under the guise of "equality." Men were no longer called upon to defend a woman's honor but her "equality." This is rich. This is the birth of the double standard I will address later.
The third downside was that it liberated men in a way not seen before. It used to be a man's responsibility to be faithful to his wife, provide for her and her offspring, tend to her outdoor household chores usually involving lawncare and car maintenance, and assist in raising the kids especially the boys. A man who ran out on his woman and shirked these responsibilities was considered an utter and complete piece of shit. With women's liberation, men can do this now without a shred of remorse and guilt, and they do exactly that. Being a husband and a father is now reduced to being a check in the mail. It is now a nation of "my baby's daddy."
Men's Liberation
The downsides for the women's movement serve as upsides to the men. This is why I say that women's liberation is really men's liberation. Having won "equality," women now get to earn a paycheck like a man, pay their own fucking bills, mow their own fucking lawns, raise the children by themselves, and still have to cook their own meals and clean their own homes. Men just have to tend to their own cooking and cleaning and putting that check in the mail on the way to the country club and the strip club. Men got the better part of the deal in women's liberation. And there are plenty of cooks, housecleaners, seamstresses, strippers, and whores to tend to whatever a man needs. Granted, they all cost money, but they cost far less than the inevitable divorce that marriage brings.
Men don't need marriage. Stupid men don't realize this, but smart men do. A man has nothing to gain from marriage and everything to lose. Today's liberated woman is a worthless cook. Many can't clean house for shit. They have an appetite for consumption that exceeds their own earnings which is why every damn one of them is a gold digger seeking constant increases in child support payments and wanting to marry the next man to enable them to consume even more in addition to what they earn from their own jobs and what they were able to get out of the last man from the divorce and his child support checks. And what does every one of these woman truly want? That is easy. Their dream is to stop working and sit at home or shop or fuck the poolboy while hubby is busy busting his ass at work. This isn't equality. This is a fuck over.
What man falls for this shit? That's easy. Men who marry do so out of a desire for emotional fulfillment. He isn't doing it for the money. He isn't doing it for the sex. Men marry because they want that total package. They want the wife, the 2.5 kids, the bass boat in the garage, and mowing the lawn on Saturday afternoon. This is because the strip club, the whorehouse, and the saloon are wastelands of emotional emptiness. Men wanting greater emotional fulfillment seek out women for this domestic foundation. They want a woman who will be their emotional pillar, their Rock of Gibraltar, their companion and helpmate. And what do women do? They prey on this vulnerability for simple cash. It is sickening to behold.
Today's woman is fucking worthless. She is useful for nothing other than a good fuck. And women debase themselves to this lowest common denominator. Because men no longer need women for anything and see through their bullshit, the only thing left is sex. The result is that they now sell thong underwear in Walmart. Women went from burning their bras in defiance of men to wearing dental floss to entice them. These women seek to emulate the prostitutes, strippers, and porn stars they see. They do things like shave their twats, get tramp stamps, pierce their clits, and get fake tits. Without a doubt, women are looking hotter and sexier than ever, and I appreciate that. Men are complete and utter fucking slobs in comparison, and they don't care. Why should they?
Women have forsaken the housewife role. They aren't terribly interested in the working woman role either as they realize what men have always known--work is hard. So, this leaves them with the only role they have left. This is the role of the whore. Women trade sex for money. They have neither virtue nor brains, so this leaves their bodies. Young women now sell themselves to older men known as "sugar daddies" and are known as "sugar babies." Older women are virtual nuns as men their age drop them for the worthless old cunts they have become. After putting up with their shit, these men are wising up and cutting them loose. Marriage is on the decline as fewer men opt for that trap.
Burning those bras was a great move on the part of women. This is because it exposed those sweet tits for any man to fondle at will. Their intended liberation has become their own enslavement. Their advancement has lead to their debasement. The backlash has lead to women becoming ever more miserable. And what sort of cognitive dissonance do these stupid bitches engage in order to justify this shit to themselves? "Pussy rules the world." What sad deluded bitches these women be.
Pussy does not rule the world. This is because pussy is cheap and plentiful. Pussy is not a scarce commodity. With roughly 50% of the world being women and women having the capacity to fuck multiple men, they are third only to water and air in terms of availability and cheapness. At this point, it is no longer a question of availability but variety. The question is no longer whether she will put out or not. It is wondering just how much of a goddamn freak she will be in the bedroom.
The Death of Chivalry and the "Menaissance"
Men, today, are confused about their roles and their relationships to women. What is sure is that they are in full backlash. From the crudity of The Man Show to the retrosexuality of a blog like The Art of Manliness, men are searching for new identities and a new way to relate to women. Unfortunately, this leads to confusion. There is no clear path for this Menaissance. Some are trying to be like their grandfathers while others are just opting to be barbaric. I see these trends merging together to form a new ideal of masculinity. Some of these things seem promising while others seem dumb. I will simply list these things and give my take on them:
1. CHIVALRY
Chivalry is dead and will remain so. Treating whores like ladies makes no sense at all. This is how a Facebooker put it, "I don't really have a problem with a woman seeking chivalry, but she best understand how to act like a lady, and that means a very high level of decorum." Women these days lack this decorum and always will.
I'm not into being a dick to women, sexual harassment, or any of that shit. I will help them lift heavy objects and start their car. But they can open their own fucking doors.
2. DRESS AND GROOMING
This is the metrosexual vs. retrosexual thing. For the metrosexuals, that shit is fucking gay. It is great for gay men, but metrosexuality was taking a woman's obsessions and turning them to men's obsessions. Fuck that shit.
Retrosexuality is trying to be like Bogart or John Wayne or your grandfather. I admit this is way fucking better than being a metrosexual. The problem is those styles were clearly a product of their times and not ours. Seriously, are you going to start wearing a suit and a vest to work? The reason those guys dressed like that was because they had a woman at home who cleaned, altered, and mended those clothes for them. This is why men turned into slobs in the 1960's. Women stopped doing that shit.
Men today opt for the man-boy/slob look because it is low maintenance. But this is definitely not a manly style. I think the better way to go is a blue collar hybrid. Men should lose the facial hair and go with short haircuts or a shaved head. This eliminates the slob part immediately. Men should not wear jewelry of any kind except a functional watch. Fuck suits unless you are going to a wedding or a funeral or sell life insurance. Go with a blue collar style such as denim pants, a T-shirt, and a buttoned shirt for the colder times of the year. A denim or leather jacket is preferred to some sporty fleece. Never wear sneakers unless you are playing basketball. Get some fucking workboots. Take a shower and wear some aftershave but fuck cologne and body spray. That shit is gay.
This way of dress and grooming allows you to be a man again without spending all day at the ironing board. This is basically how men dress in the military except I have simply modified it for civilian life. Don't be a slob or a man-boy or some effeminate pretty boy. Just be a man.
3. WOMEN AND RELATIONSHIPS
Eschew marriage at all costs. Women like to criticize guys like me as being "adolescent." We are "afraid" of commitment. This is simply bullshit. Women trashed the entire meaning of commitment such that marriage is no longer a lifelong mutually beneficial partnership but as Fred Reed put it, ". . .a commitment of seven to ten years plus child support." In short, you are not refusing to grow up. If you pay your own bills and don't live with mom and dad, you are a grown up. You are simply refusing to be a chump and a sucker.
You want to lower your expectations of women to one thing--sex. Women are for sex and nothing else. You can't have a meaningful conversation with a woman because these women are too stupid for this sort of thing. Conversations are something men do over drinks at the bar. Women are not your friends. They are temporary pleasures not unlike a glass of scotch or a fine cigar. Use them and discard them. If this seems cold and callous, realize that this is exactly how women treat men. When a woman becomes too much of a bother, dispose of her like any other piece of trash. Kick her to the curb.
Fidelity to whores is meaningless, so don't ever agree to any relationship status with a woman. You don't have girlfriends. You simply have dates. Play the game like James Bond would do but don't expend major energies in this endeavor. Date and discard. Women love an indifferent man.
Some women will call you a "scoundrel" and a "rake." Agree with them. This is where I part company with the Art of Manliness. I don't care about virtues because as I have pointed out in regards to dress and chivalry, it takes two for this dance. This does not mean being the lecherous sleaze grabbing ass at every turn. It is enough to merely avail yourself of what comes your way.
4. PROJECTS AND FRIENDS
What matters most to a man are his activities. Women have killed the family project, so this leaves work and creative endeavors. The new man spends his time fulfilling himself with things he can control. He doesn't care about women in any significant way. He goes to the gym and works out. Or he goes fishing or hunting. It is through these activities that he shares camaraderie with his friends. It is no coincidence that women despise a man's work and his time with his buddies. This is because these are the things that make a man truly happy. Women despise a happy man. A miserable man is a man that she can control with pussy blackmail.
Conclusion
Women's liberation was actually men's liberation. In seeking more, they now have less. So, they have sought redress for this in a colossal double standard. They want to have their cake and eat it, too. All I can say is good luck with that. There are always going to be a few men stupid enough to go along with it. I am just not one of them. I don't care to have women back in the kitchen. I want them working and making their own money and taking care of their own responsibilities. I was raised with the expectation that any woman I met was going to be my equal. I have found this not to be the case. Women are my inferiors. So, the choice is clear. You can have the boardroom or the kitchen. I don't care. I only care about the bedroom, and I have a nasty habit of leaving the toilet seat up. Deal with it. I am a free man, and there isn't a goddamn thing you can do about it.
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