Exit Strategy

Women hate women. If you doubt this, go ask a woman. Men are supposed to be such awful people. They are violent, angry, and chauvinistic. Yet, women find they get along with men better than women. Men find they cannot get along with women. They cannot get along with women for the same reasons that women cannot get along with women. This is because women are lacking in virtue.

A woman reading this may find this to be a stinging rebuke. Their fur has been rubbed the wrong way. But they support this conclusion by their attitudes to other women, their attitudes to the men who hate women, and their own behavior. Women make themselves worthless. Naturally, I will get slammed for my "overgeneralization." There are exceptions to my generalization. I can agree to this. There have been some exceptional women in the world. I think of women like Ayn Rand, Amelia Earhart, Madame Curie, and Margaret Thatcher. But praising these women is akin to praising a reformed gangbanger. They achieve in spite of what they are not because of what they are.

By and large, women look to a man for their happiness, their identities, and their prosperity. They don't look to themselves for these things. This is why they lack virtue. The women who display virtue are the ones who are already happy, establish their own identities, and make their own money. These women are very hard to find.

Women learn early to look to some man or men for what they want or need in life. It may start with charming their dads into buying them a pony. It goes on from there to getting some rich guy to put a ring on their finger. As such, women are parasites. They are no different than a tick or a leech. The reason women hate each other and are so cruel to each other is because they are in competition with each other for hosts to suck on.

Men fall prey to these parasites because they have emotions and feelings. This may surprise women, but it is true. Men feel deeply, and I will argue they feel more deeply than women. The reason men hide these feelings is because of the absolute betrayal they experience from women. The conventional wisdom is that a misogynist is a man that has been hurt by some woman. Read Ian Fleming, and you must conclude that the reason Bond is so misogynistic is because the women in his life are nothing more than false faced cunts looking to fuck him over. This is why the women are reduced to mere sex objects, and Bond remains a virtual bachelor.




The Bond philosophy with women is pretty simple. Women are for pleasure and nothing more. Sometimes, these women are useful in accomplishing the mission, but these relationships lead either to betrayal, tragic death, or the beginning of a fuck session as the ending credits start to roll. Bond never has any meaningful relationships with these women. On the few times when they do, they always end in betrayal or death. Something has to happen to Bond to keep him from ever being tied down and domesticated. Both men and women agree that a married and domesticated Bond would be a kind of death for the character.

Bond does have one meaningful relationship with a woman. This woman is Miss Moneypenny. There is sexual tension between the two, but those characters never consummate the relationship. Moneypenny has no illusions about Bond. She knows exactly what he is. Conversely, Bond could have Moneypenny anytime he likes. But he never does. What does this tell us about relating with women? The answer is obvious. If you want to have a meaningful relationship with a woman, don't ever have sex with her.



Lovers can't be friends and vice versa. This is something I have noticed again and again. Bond and Moneypenny flirt, but we seem to know that if they ever did the nasty it would end the friendship. You can tell Bond loves the woman, and he would probably die for her if the situation called for it. And Moneypenny sees that Bond is fundamentally a decent man despite the fact that he is a womanizer and a stone cold killer. The fact is that sex would not elevate the relationship but debase it. It would cheapen it.

In my own life, I have various female friends that I am not romantically involved with, and I don't care to be. I have learned that you never ever date a co-worker. That is a mistake. But these Platonic relationships are the most meaningful relationships I have ever had with women. To be honest, I find these relationships as meaningful as any of the friendships I have with men. This is the nature of friendship.

On the flip side, there have been the sexual escapades that had no meaning whatsoever. This would be the one-night-stands and the like. These are actually quite fun and have left me with fond memories. I imagine Bond having similar pleasant memories. Lust is cheap, but it will never break your heart.

Love is a different story. Love destroys you because it is essentially a lie. The lie is that you can love a woman but also be friends with her. This is not possible. Lust is fulfilling in one respect while friendship is fulfilling in another. But they can't be mixed. There are friends who are also sex partners from time to time. These are called "friends with benefits." But there is no love there in the sense that we think of love. Sex isn't even about love. Sex is about lust. Love is what makes you hang around for breakfast.

Love is nature's way of making a man stick around to care for the woman and her offspring. It is a sort of delusion especially when you consider that the offspring is probably from some other dude. Nature really doesn't care. The man who hangs around is the dupe. This is why Bond can never be in a relationship because it goes against the integrity of the character. If you want to see what Bond becomes when he gets married, just watch that last Indiana Jones movie.



James Bond, Han Solo, and Indiana Jones all come from the same archetype. Where they went wrong in Indy 4 was they turned Indy into a husband which ruined the character for everyone. Han Solo was ruined by the last Star Wars film as well. Love turns heroes into dupes. Even the women lose respect for the hero.

A true man learns to fuck them and leave them. This is called the "exit strategy." The exit strategy term comes from venture capital and angel investing where rich investors put up the seed capital to get a venture off the ground in hopes of selling the start up to Google or offering it as an IPO on the stock market. There is no long term commitment there. Some people might find this sort of thing distasteful, but they shouldn't. If it weren't for these investors taking huge gambles with their cash, many innovative businesses wouldn't exist today. When they cash out, they usually move their profits to another start up and begin the process again. They lose more often than they win. But I digress. . .

When it comes to women, men must decide if the woman is going to be a friend or a sex partner. If it is the latter, he taps that ass until the commitment issue comes up. When that happens, he bails. He walks away. The experienced man knows that things do not get better from that point forward but worse. This man is what I call the "rogue bachelor."

The rogue bachelor is distinguished from your regular run-of-the-mill bachelors who are what we would call "pre-husbands." They are available like wares on a shelf for women to pick through. Sometimes, these men are returned to the shelf, but their role is essentially husband, father, cuckold, and Santa Claus. Rogue bachelors are never on the shelf. They refuse to be husband material. "Playboy" is another term except I think you need to be rich to be called a playboy.

Women love rogue bachelors. This is why they swoon and get all wet when Sean Connery is on the screen even when the guy is a geriatric. George Clooney has that role now except he lives it in real life. The man is a perma-bachelor. He just knows better.

For the man wishing to live this way and employ the exit strategy, he must commit to never falling in love. Love is to lust what alcoholism is to vodka. Love is a chemical addiction, and I mean that in the most literal sense. The man pulls this off by the knowledge and belief that the woman he is with is a complete whore. He doesn't have to tell her this. He doesn't have to disrespect her either. But it is knowledge that he keeps to himself. This knowledge is what saves him.

To love a woman is to believe that she is worth living for and dying for and fighting for and sacrificing for. This would be that pathetic fuck in The Notebook. Men hate that movie because they know there isn't a woman alive worth that kind of devotion. Women know it, too. No man sacrifices himself for a whore.

The debasement of women in a man's mind works. But what happens when a man meets a worthy woman? That is simple. She is elevated to friendship, and there is no sex between friends. Whores are for sex. Friends are for companionship. This is James Bond in a nutshell. The man who follows this principle will remain happy and light all his days.

For women, the goal is simple. How can I turn sex into money? Prostitutes, strippers, and porn actresses are honest about this which is why they should be admired and respected. The honest whore will never break your heart. This is the job of the dishonest whore who marries a man for his money and then fucks his best friend.

It is impossible to love a whore. No man falls in love with a whore unless he is deluded about her true nature. Once a man knows his woman is unfaithful, he wants her gone. Only some freak who gets off on being cuckolded will stay with a whore. But this isn't love.

The reason men are like this is biological. The selfish gene demands replication. A man will guard and defend his woman because he is really guarding and defending his offspring. This is the purpose and function of love. But once the man understands and realizes the chick has been fucking other men, he loses this love since he is not going to expend himself guarding and defending the offspring of another. This how a man can gladly fuck some woman while at the same time not giving a fuck about her.

Rogue bachelors are misogynists because they short circuit their benevolent natures by regarding all women they fuck as whores. The ones they don't fuck are regarded as human. This is the crux of the exit strategy. By not having any feelings or regards for these women, the man can walk away while feeling nothing at all. I have done this myself, and it works.

Is this some really dark shit to contemplate? Yes, but I follow the truth wherever it leads me. As for love, coming out of it feels like a detox. It brings a lightness to your step and to your being. Falling out of love hurts at first as any withdrawal will. But then, you start feeling better, and you realize that you feel better out of love than in it. This is what the committed ex-addict discovers as well. When you realize that sobriety feels better than any addiction, you learn to stay away from those things. Love is just another addiction. Find your way out of it.

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