I Am Not a Nice Guy

I get this all the time. "You really are a nice guy." No, I am not.

I am not a nice guy. I have never been a nice guy. A nice guy is someone who is pleasant to be around. That isn't me. A nice guy is someone who will lend you twenty bucks. That isn't me.

I am selfish. That is the bottom line. I do what I think is best for me. This doesn't mean walking all over other people. It also means not letting them walk all over me.

I have done some nice things for people, and I have regretted it every single time. So, I am inclined not to do those things. That is because those people always turn around and shit on me. So, I don't do nice things anymore.

People only care about you to the extent that you do things for them. The moment that ends is the moment you end. If there are people in your life that were with you in the downtimes, hang on to them. They are the ones who give a shit about you. Everyone else is a parasite.

Don't be nice to people. True friends are the ones who like you for you.

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